Hi WAS.....I imagine that you don't want to rock the boat right now, but maybe you have to if you are feeling so uneasy. What if you said to h exactly what you have written here...i.e.
" H, you seem to really be into the porn on the computer lately. It is bugging me and I'm feeling very insecure with what I'm seeing you do. Looking at porn is not helping us reconcile."
