How much do you pay for therapy?

[ms ladybug]

OK. I'm not happy with my IC. I've only seen him twice, and really he hasn't offered much. He suggested a book to me. Gottmans 7 Principles book, but told me several times yesterday, "it doesn't look good". WELL, I KNOW it doesn't look good...that's why I'm here.

Maybe I'm looking for something that isn't out there. I want a solution-based therapist.
So, my insurance doesn't give me a great list of people. I found a counselor that I think would be good. He mentioned working with law enforcement in his profile, and I think that could be helpful since a lot of h's problems may stem from his job

...but he's not in my insurance network. His fees are $80-89/session. Would you pay that? Is that a lot? I suppose I would see him every other week? I'm thinking of going out of network.

I'm tired of not finding a good therapist!