First and foremost is hoping my W will come back and allow us to have a marriage to change/improve.
Amen!! I think that this is a common goal for about 99.9% of the people here! I'm glad to see that you broke it down a bit farther!
2. Create a trusting love for each other.
What does a "trusting love" mean to you? What would that involve in your mind? What do you think it means for her? When you had a trusting love for each other in the past, what was it like?
3. Be more open an honest with each other.
How open and honest with her have you been in the past? When she has been open and honest with you, how have you reacted? Have either of you shut the other off when expressing honest thoughts and feelings? If so, how? What could you do to change that?
4. Make more quality time to enjoy each others company.
Define quality time. What will you be doing? What will she be doing? What will you both be doing together?
5. Have a better understanding of each others needs and expectations.
What are your needs and expectations? What do you think hers might be? What times in your life together do you think that you have both have been meeting each other's needs? What were you both doing at these times? What were YOU doing that you think might have made her feel like you understood her needs, and made her more open to understanding your needs?
JJ
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