Just like other said, I think you are on the right track but you have to take it easy, meaning do not be overenthusiastic. DB is a process that you have to be conscious and were of all the time.

In my case, last night W said first time since the bomb the word "We" and I am already building castles in the air...

Me 42
W 27
Married: 6 years
Together: 7 years
Daughter: 3 years
Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country)
EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07)
Papers served on 2/6/2008