Do what? We do the same as you: we feel our self-esteem plummet, we don't feel attractive any more, we cry, we get depressed, we wonder why we can't get a rise out of the men in our lives.
In my case, I finally realized I was getting nowhere and told my bf the boy-girl thing wasn't working. Now we're friends only and I feel myself coming back to life.
LFL was ready to run to a former bf and her H FINALLY got the message that his lack of interest was a problem for her (duh!) and he jumped on the bandwagon (and on LFL). Hers is one of the few success stories.
Mojo kicked H out after almost two decades of making excuses for him and trying to please him.
Karen is hurting and doesn't plan on going anywhere.
Frankly, I don't see how the men on here who haven't had a sweet, congenial, mutually desired sexual encounter in decades manage to survive... and still WANT R's with their wives.
