Rachel, It sounds to me like your H is where my H was for so long except that I think what made mine stay was our son. Yes, he is coming around to me now, but I'm almost postitive that if it wasn't for my son he would have stayed away when he left. I told him I wouldn't put up with pretending anymore. I've wasted too much of my life already.
I think you are handling the situation very well. Just the fact that your H called to apologize says something. What I really admire about you is that you are doing something with your life and not sitting around waiting for him to wake up. You should be very proud of yourself. One day he will wake up and he will be sorry for hurting you this way.
I think I will come take a look at the book club chat. It sounds like something I could use. It sounds like it has helped you a lot. Look forward to hearing from you again...Nikki
