He constantly reminds me this is over. His feelings for me are gone. Said just last night that he doesn't get along with me and no longer wants to be married. Once he said whether this is right or wrong he will not change his mind from his course.
Ok, so why does he do this? Most people, when set on something do not have to mention it constantly. They just do it. If you keep bringing it up over and over again it is because it's bothering you. (lets go back to my sprinkler motor, now I mention it constantly because is bother the heck out of me, he never mentiones it, and that bothers me even more) Do you understand where I am going here??
Neither of you have got to the root of the problem. Yes, I am completly aware it takes two to make it work. BUT sometimes 1 person can get it started.
Remember back to the beginning of your relationship. Remember all the things that attracted you to him, him to you. Put some mix in the picture now, throw in some of that good ole stuff from way back when, ya know, when he is least expecting it, then simply walk away smiling and do not talk to him for awhile. AND NO MORE ARGUING! Leave that to the people you'll pay.
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!