My IC suggested to me just yesterday to get Gottman's book. I just have such a plethora of books that I didn't want to add another to my overflowing nightstand. I guess I should look into it.
Good to see you back with your positive updates! I'm so happy for you and the example you two are setting for your boys!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."