Thanks all! The road is certainly difficult for each of us to avoid the traps that we feel into before. However, the difference this time is that we are both trying to make it work. I strongly suggest that y'all go get Gottman's book to suppliment Michelle's information. It has been very helpful to both of us.

I am pulling for each one of you good luck!

Hound

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce