Frank, you are sounding strong. I don't think that what you did was DB, but it needed to be said. Your wife will see you taking care of yourself and that alone is a step in the right direction.

brandnewday, I love your signature line.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."