I think we can drive ourselves crazy trying to second guess our spouses. Best to just let go and watch from afar. She is still in limbo land and I don't think she is close to figureing out what she wants. Don't let her waffling get you down. I think it is par for the DB course.
Best, --Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08