Michael, You are so right that all of the WAS are basically the same.
~None of them think they need counseling
~All think it's okay to have the affair, but how dare you check up on them!
~ In my case my H got furious when he found out that the OW's H had contacted me. He said the we were trying to manipulate them, wow, insanity knows no bounds, does it?
~ Of course let's not forget that we get accused of seeing someone else!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon