You've been here as long as I have. But when I read your first few posts it seemed to me like you were a newbie.
Do you want this divorce? Are you "adapted" to the single way of life know? I kinda am. I have been divorced almost 7 motns but seperated since oct 05. I don't know if I could go back. It would have to be on romantic wooing thats for sure.
But I think you still have a chance. I think you need to stop, take a moment, and go back to the beginning of the whole point of being on this sight.
I love "Newcomers". I get so much from them. I read almost all of the posts but only really frequent 1. It helps to get ourselves grounded again for what we want. Either we are standing or we are not. The divorce aspect is like I said, a different personality would take over. When it came to other issues or the tit for tats I would not discuss them with him. It all had to be discussed legally. This way he could not hold it against me. Or point that proverbial finger at me.
I need to take some time and go over your threads to see where you started to lose sight of the ultimate goal.
Yes HSS.....I am divorced, I am seeing someone, but I DO STILL have hope that my xh will come around. He shows signs that all is not over. Neither do I wish it to be. But I have learned the right from wrongs now. Never argue is top of the list.
ok....I will read more after work!!
Hugs
Jeanette
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