Inviting hokiness in my life

[fearless]

If she reports back in the affirmative, I may have to re-think the whole "deliver the message" talk.

I, for one, wouldn't think less of you if you did delay the talk:) Perfectly understandable in my book!!

I think that's the biggest reason for me having any patience with Ms. HD - your story last year of her being okay with you watching the b-ball game, coming late to the concert (was it?) and even giving you a kiss because they lost. It might sound small but I've known so many women that would not have handled that anywhere near as graciously. It really struck me as a loving gesture. Sure not the "gesture" you'd most like but still a nice one:) that did make me think she cared about you.