Understood - but at this time there is nothing legal. According to the first lawyer I saw in '05 he is paying more than required so I was told not to rock the boat. In that he has the upper hand. Called for another free lawyer consultation today to get new figures to see exactly where I stand. He was talking about lowering it maybe $200/month from current. And paying his own medical instead of me paying it. So it may be not much different. But won't know until something happens.
Original lawyer also told me he wasn't entitled to 1/2 of the house. But he isn't fighting that.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
