There are real men in my world that I find attractive, No Sale - I'm married, not dead. Finding another man attractive is not sufficient reason to toss my marriage and run off - fortunately, I find my H very attractive too.
Finding someone else attractive is different than fantasizing about them, which is what I was asking about.
Are you LD with your H, yet fantasize about these others?
My thread (linked above) will provide background to my sitch, but I'm still curious in general.
