Dom - I like your posts and cac's too. I can't tell you how overwhelming my life is right now. I do try to pay attention to H, but as was noted - there are times on the weekend when D is napping that I have energy and could be enthusiastic and...he's not home!
I don't know if it always falls this way, but I feel like I'm doing 90% of the work to get our love life on track and he's doing 10%. Then he wonders what I've done because the results are either temporary or minimal. Some support and encouragement on his part would have gone a long way, but that is not his style. His style is to dig in his feet and throw a tantrum.
Instead of a puppy, perhaps I should treat him like a toddler?
