When I commented "Wow - what happened to the stereo (boom box) he said - you told me you hated it." "I said what my internt has been & he said, "You said you hated it. I took care of it." (very case closed. That kind of reactiveness leads me to feeling like a whiner and a b*tch. ....
wow.. that's really nice. another example of how much he cares about your feelings.
I dont think you're a whiner or a bitch.To me;
whiner = "complaining about trivial stuff, or pointless stuff" bitch = demanding things you dont deserve.
What you are complaining about is not trivial. and you DO deserve it!
I read what you wrote since my post yesterday. you kindasorta replied indirectly, but not directly. so wondering if you either skipped over it, or missed the point of interest to you that i was trying to make.
sooo.. i'll try again, in a slightly different way
I saw you wrote that you dont think your husband will suddenly turn over a new leaf by reading a few verses of scripture. I completely understand your lack of optimism there . Thing is though... what do you have to lose?
Are you in any way afraid of a serious negative reaction, if you asked your H, "have you read/ what do you think the following scripture lines mean?"
Seems to me like it would be a fairly "safe" thing to do. So, if it helps.. great! and if it doesnt... no loss.
If you won a chance at one of those "free throw" giveaways, where you get one basketball toss, and if you make it in, you win a free car... even if you are TERRIBLE at basketball.. wouldnt you try anyway, even if the chance of you getting it in, is tiny? 'cause if you make it... GREAT! and if you miss... well, so what?
Last edited by Dom R; 01/31/0806:57 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
