No Sale - I wouldn't consider that a hijack. Fantasies seem like something that might help with the passion.
Maybe it's me (and that's why I want to discuss the topic); if all (most?, 50/50) women do it, then in of itself it isn't an indicator of a problem in my R.
Personally, if I wanted someone else, I'd end my M and go after it. I don't waste time (even when I was single) thinking about say a super model, TV star, [insert anyone else you will never meet]. Not that I don't aim high, I set very high goals and almost always attain them.
Again, that's me. It will be enlighting to hear from others, especially women, LD or not.
