My thought is that he just needs to be left alone to process his loss of OW. It does sound like he is grieving her but, ya just never know maybe he is deep in though over what he has done to the R. Just take care of you right now and GAL. Also No R talk.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez