don't know what the laws are for TN, but no matter what he says it is ultimately up to to the judge, he's just bluffing, it doesn't mean it's going to happen that way, not if you dont' want that to happen, so don't panic.
Yes, in an ideal world kids should grow up with 2 parents, I also hurt because of the posibility that my kids won't have that,but I rather be D than live w/a man who doesn't respect me nor shows love or care for anyone but himself. You are young and have a whole life ahead of you and you can still provide a loving home for your little ones.
Your H is used to spewing out venom and watch you squirm, stay strong, dont' cry or loose it in front of him, just tell him matter of factly that "we'll see how things work out in court".
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
