Give yourself permission to fantasize during sex too, even if it's not about your H. I have a few reliable ones that I need to focus on to reach orgasm - keeps me in the moment, because if my mind is not in the room, my body isn't having much fun.
Personally, I'd like to understand a bit more about this. Is this common for example? How does it realate to your R overall?
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