Interesting. For the sake of the argument, when was the last time you were in a relationship where the man wasn't wanting to jump your lovely bones on a constant basis? I'm not counting STBX, unless early on. But since him, you haven't been with anyone for long enough for the initial blaze to die down a bit, have you? How often do you suppose you would go out of your way to initiate in the absence of constant initiation from your partner? (This assumes everything else in the relationship is fine and you just tuckered him out or he's overloaded elsewhere or something.)
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