I also like your list. There is one thing missing that I think you should add: I keep the company of MEN who understand the trials I'm going through and talk to them when life seems overwhelming.
MEN need OTHER MEN. In the past there were 'Elders' and other support structures in society. That's been missing for so long and is probably the reason society is so screwed up.
Do you have any MEN who are your support (outside of AA, you need variety of perspectives) that you can call whenever you are in anxiety / panic / fear/ self doubt? If not E-Mail ME and I'll be your 'Betterman'.
Also, go get Hold On To Your N.U.T.S.. You can get it at a local bookstore or on Amazon. Read it.
Then, realize that you should NEVER discuss problems with your W that are MEN's issues. Never.