Not much going on today, but wanted to start a new thread.

AND LIN.....It is not necessary to come all the way over to the east coast to slap me silly! But thanks for thinking of me. I will not be getting sucked back into this mess with H and OW. If OW thinks he is lying to her then she will have to figure it out on her own....

I have realized that he really needs to change before I would ever take him back....and right now all he is learning is that he can cheat and lie and that it is ok, because we keep taking him back. It is time he grew up! I know that he will not call himself a liar because he doesnt really lie in his opinion, he only tells part of the truth.

But what I hate and am having a problem with is knowing I have info that would make her dump him and cut all ties if she will stick to her word....but it would also make my H cut all ties with me. Or never talk to me again. Which isnt what I want....but I have been praying about it and have decided to let God handle what should be done. HE has the power to take her away from his life. Im praying that I can just be strong enough to continue standing, but also move forward with my life.

I know I am happy with me. Im not happy that my H isnt here, but I am happy with what I DO have. H cant be happy thinking OW doubts his word and doesnt trust him. OW cant be happy living with doubts. It will wear on them. I just have to go on Gods timeline.

So, trying to have a good day.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10