I like the idea of getting rid of frump wear and buying more sexy things. I've tried that in very small doses, but when H doesn't even notice or says he doesn't really like something it is like another put down. I'm just so sensitive to criticism at this point.
But you're not doing it for HIM, you're doing it for YOU. Has he actually told you he didn't like your new new sexy things? I wouldn't like that either.