I wasn't referring to this BB. I think, in general, in life, there are way more people who could use more sex than there are those who are sex-obsessive. Like exercise.
Maybe you are right. I guess it depends on what the Surgeon General would recommend and how much people lie on surveys. My perspective may be a bit skewed because I've been dating men who don't "not have sex". Pretty much any preference can be reframed as dysfunctional or obsessive. Workaholic/slacker, neatnik/slob, superfreak/frigid etc. etc. If I were to use BB's messy mate analogy, the argument FSG and I had about sex last night would be the equivalent of two messies good-naturedly bickering about who was more responsible for the state of the living room.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
