I believe that to a large degree - and I do have a tendency to let my mind drift. I did have an O last night but it was so miniscule it left no warm and fuzzy feelings afterward - just disappointment. The natural testosterone did help but then I have to deal with side effects. Which is worse? I'm not sure.
The other thing I thought about last night while ML, is that I've worked hard to stay in shape but my H has let himself slip. Not horribly, but enough that I notice the difference.
I feel like I'm the only one working to improve things, and I know that isn't true...he does try.
