Ohhhh ok.. gotcha, thank you. Sorry, I was really confused thinking that you were trying to get a boyfriend back a few months ago and now a girlfriend and thinkin' "well there's the problem!" ;\)

I still go with the advice I left earlier of leave her alone for now. Sounds like she needs the time away to get herself together.

But with that said.. do you have ANY contact at all? It's always a bit tougher when you don't have actual "reasons" to see each other and show off the "new and improved" you. When's the last time that you talked to her - has it been since things went bad in October?

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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