He also kept on the fact that he only kissed that woman because he thought I was on a double date with Hope.
Then if that's the case - stop with the game playing and tell it to him straight - don't risk pushing him away for a laugh about him being jealous.
As for OW - I am sure you are right that your H wants you to contact her to up the agro from his perspective. I mean, who gives a rats a$$ what OW thinks about you - you know the truth. Frankly, if she is saying those thinks it smacks of jealousy and perhaps her H has been saying to her "why can't you be more like lwb!!!!"
I know whenever I contacted OW I just came away feeling that the fact that I had contacted her showed her that she had gotten to me - I got fed up letting the b!tch see that in the end. She had gotten to me but why should I make her feel better by letting her know that? it took me SO LONG to figure that out - you are way smarter than me!!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
