That comment is pretty mind-blowing. I would say that I believe that there are/were issues in the R for certain, but that sounds like some raging rationalizing to me, and I have heard things similar to that from my H in the past. It has to be a coping mechanism for them.
That said, I'm sure H is tired of hearing how deeply I've been hurt...not that I constantly wear it on my sleeve, but every once in awhile it all just boils over.
I think that's where my concerns come in: I haven't seen the true remorse from him, maybe never will...but unless/until he faces just how seriously he hurt me and sinned before Heavenly Father, will there be real change?
