Actually, H treats my opinions as marching orders. I made one comment about how the wires all over our bedroom from the stereo & speakers bothered me. I was thinking we might look for some kind of cabinet for it. The next thing I knew H took it to Goodwill & got a little ipod dock to use for music. When I commented "Wow - what happened to the stereo (boom box) he said - you told me you hated it." "I said what my internt has been & he said, "You said you hated it. I took care of it." (very case closed. That kind of reactiveness leads me to feeling like a whiner and a b*tch.

Karen