"Spoken to people" and they say that it is better for the kids because it gives them more stability.
Interestingly enough, you cna always find "people" to agree with your point of view. An 8 year old who is stuck in this sitch is just trying to guess what will make him feel better. He can't be responsibele for his best intrests. He "wants" to stop hurting.
I like your approach of trying it and seeing how it plays out.
