lwb, seriously, reality if hitting him in the face and he can't handle it. thank god you read thru the BS about him wanting you to call OW. I also would only believe about half of what he is telling you in that regard, too. he may be right, he may not be, but honestly, unless she is threatening your well being, it is a distraction. it tries to keep your focus off of him and his actions, and onto hers. and all of this crap is working to keep your focus off of where it should be...yourself.
your H is full of it right now. he is scared and his fantasy world is blowing up in his face. the reality that you talked about...him moving out, exposing the A to family, etc...is freaking him out. I have zero doubt about it.
your first order of business is to take care of you and your girls. I'm glad you are going to see an IC...please don't step back from that. as for your h staying in the house, if you want him gone, you can get him gone. you have that power. I'd personally need him gone at least for a while at this point. honestly I don't think it is healthy for you with him there. but again, that is absolutely your call, and I will support you no matter what on that score.
(((HUGS)))
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