Have you explicitly told him that it is because he is out there saying these things you can't be intimate with him?
Miss saffie, yes, I told him this specifically. I admitted to him that it makes me feel closer to ML to him and this is dangerous for me right now. I told him I can't watch him be out, flirting and kissing other women, and then come home to me. I told him I still want him, am attracted to him, but am not built like that. He might not have known these things, but he knows them now.
I just received a phone call and an apology. Wow. We just talked for quite awhile and are 'good' again. He is out driving around, cooling off, called me for another reason (Did I know where a receipt was...) and then started in on the apology. I am calmer now.
I will not call OW. I have thought about it, but it won't do any good. Of course, I am angry about the things she is saying about me. I am just starting to make good friends at D6's school. I do this not knowing whether they know her or not. I will be very upset if this gets nasty at school. My beautiful D6 doesn't deserve to have her innocence shattered. H wants me to call OW, but he wants it for the wrong reasons. He says I should stand up to what she is saying about me, but really, I think he wants to 'bug her'. He is truly seeing her for what she is, and he asked me why I never told him that I knew what she was like. I told him that it wouldn't have done any good to hear it from me, that he had to see it for himself.
saffie, I am for sure that he is telling women he is getting divorced. He also kept on the fact that he only kissed that woman because he thought I was on a double date with Hope. lmfao!!!! Hope, I knew you would get a chuckle out of that one. Maybe you'll get a 'private' call today........ oh the joys of hopping on the rollercoaster with me. hee hee
Thank you everyone for responding. I will be strong, I feel better, I can do this.
