Tired and giving up

[LuvMyHusband]

Saffie, I most definitely feel he is suffering from depression and high blood pressure. He has been going to the gym more so that's good but I don't think he does much else except be on the pc.

I love my H, I would help him if I could, if he would let me, he won't. Sometimes I really do feel like moving on, not bc I need someone else but bc I am so tired of this. He has weighted me down with every wrong thing in our M. He went so far as to say the whole length of our M (11 yrs) was bad. I calmly stopped him and stated that I didn't feel that was a true statment nor a fair one. He said Ok, well, the last five. I responded with that I felt he was forgetting all the love, laughter and good times and just focusing on the bad and that maybe we should work on focusing on the good. He said Ok. I have been working really hard on not being reactive or impulsive. I think I'm doing pretty good.