He's hurt. So maybe it's good that he isn't moving out. And it's good that you "cut him off."

What I mean is that it's crunch time now. He's out "checking out the talent." So you have to be "talent." Make yourself pretty, and go about your life. Be a good mommy, and a hard-working, productive person.

If he wakes up... great. You can then work through the process of piecing. If not... well, not great, but at least you have created the best possible lwb.

You are a strong, attractive, confident, sexy, productive mother. Keep it going. You have nothing to lose.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9