Well, we had a huge fight. We stayed up late talking and actually went to sleep as friends. I did turn him down for sex and he is very angry about that. I was honest why I did (I read more into than him, I can't be with him when he is with other people), but he is very rejected. He woke up very angry and lashed out at me all morning, once in front of D3. He said something about my friend (who he hates) in front of D3 and she knew what he was talking about. He is totally lost, lashing out, angry, hurt, and taking it all out on me.
We are back to him NOT moving out til he gets half the house.
He told me (before we fought, when we were talking calmly) that OW went off on him about me. They are in a bad way, lashing out. He sees now what kind of person she is and is taking it out on her because he was so duped. She is lashing out at him because...well...she is psycho. She told H that I am a slut, a B$tch, a bad mom, a person who puts her career first, that I shouldn't have had kids, that I would be the only one stupid enough to stay with H (lol), etc. I cannot believe this, but H is going to D6's school and telling the vice principal about the A, about OW, and that he wants no contact between her and our D6. He will also tell her that I know about all of this, so if something happens and he is unreachable, she can contact me. Wow.
I am at a loss. I tried to channel NoCode this morning when H spewed at me for so long. I tried to walk away calmly saying to him "This isn't helping us, let's talk later", and I got a "Same old lwb, controlling the situation, refusing to talk about things". I can't win. Nocode, I am in that paper bag with you, I was anti db this morning big time. I will eventually apologize for the anger I showed, but I will not hear anything back from him.
He is very mad about the sex. Mad his cake is cut off, I suppose. But I am not built that way, I can't be with him when he is out telling women he is getting a divorce, getting numbers, and basically dating. I can't do it.
