Thanks for your thoughts guys. I am very upset this morning just thinking about seeing her when I pick her up. I know that she misses me but I am afraid what might come out of her fog riden mouth. I have donw a great job with the kids the last few weeks and the house ahs never been cleaner. I am sure she will appriciate it. We go to see the theripist together next Tuesday. I will not pursue but I am sure i will get a huge hug and kiss when I first see her which is going to break my heart. Your thoughts?