I am so sorry - he is being such an A$$ and I totally feel for you! What are you going to do about FL? Maybe just you and the girls should go - it was when I went to Hilton Head without H (first time EVER we did not do a vacation as a family) that he realized what it was like to be on his own... Just my .02...
I believe a true S will help you - it is rough at first but then a semi-peace sets in b/c you cannot see what they are doing and you have to let it go. Bedtime was still rough but it got easier over time. My H moved out last Feb and did not come back for good until July (and then OW still tried again in Sept...) He said the apt felt like a time-out like he was being punished - which maybe that's what it was supposed to be...
Take care of you! I was taking just one Simply Sleep OTC pill - just to help me relax enough to fall asleep...
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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
