Is this the phone sex you're talking about? How do you know that he's really doing it. Maybe he's faking? After all it's a lot easier to fake this kind of sexual vigour.
Well, clearly I can't know whether he's faking for sure. BTW I didn't mean to imply that he had 50 orgasms -lol. It's more like I get about 3 for 1 and then just a few minutes later he's ready to go again and I get about 2 for 1 so I would estimate that maybe he's gone 20 times for my 50.
Anyways, last night we had a "fight" (more comic than angry) about who's more HD. Whether or not I "won" or "lost" depends on the extent to which sexual responsiveness = drive. My "problem" is that I am ridiculously sexually responsive. I can be in a completely non-sexual mode of being but if a man who I find attractive says something like "unzip your pants" I'm pretty much instantly aroused and since I have like a 30 second refractory period I can just keep orgasming until I get sore. However, in my book my level of sexual responsiveness doesn't equal my sex drive because my sexual responsiveness is just the equivalent of me wanting to say "Yes" if someone offers me a cookie and my sex drive is me being willing to get in the car and go to the store or get out the stool and climb up on the cupboard or get out the cookbook and bowl and get myself some cookies. The cookie analogy is also valid because it's like I can get in the habit of expecting cookies for dessert if they're always available and also because in a world in which cookies had no calories I might only stop eating them when I got a tummy ache.
So, one of the questions I am pondering is : Does sex have calories? and if so what form do they take? My sister and I couldn't figure out whether getting pervy text messages from men during our work day makes us more or less productive. We can pretty much stay on task while we chat about the topic and our desire to interrupt our work day to go shopping for erotic apparel was matched with a bargain to do some more work that would allow us to afford the erotic apparel. Also, I'm going to go to a little book sale when I visit FSG so I should be able to get a partial tax write-off for any expenses I might accrue.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
