H4C, good to hear you sounding so positive. I'm thinking that the "scared her off" theory was partially correct. Seems you backed off and she came out of hiding again. I'm very happy for you (job, things turning around, etc.)

I think having these doubts is natural. You've been fighting for the chance to get the M back on track, that was your focus. Now that she is out of the fog you can take a step back and really start to process the damage that has been done. I imagine that this is where things can really get difficult as you both try to come to terms with everything that has happened.

I can't wait for the day that you tell us that OM has finally left. Having him around is still a distraction, IMO. At least it would be for me.

Enjoy the weekend together!!


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07