Hey fish - I tried to PM you and a block came up saying your message file reached its limit? I dont know I'm tech challenged. (I even had to look up what PM meant - I know pathetic!) HA Try sending me one - I would love to chat - Its great your Mom made you feel better - kind of validates its not you - not even close. Unfortunately my mom is still praying for us to reconcile and when I talk to her I get - is there anything you can do? cant you just sit down and talk? Like it is even up to me.