I'm wondering if she has some other motive for 2 weeks that she is not saying.
I'm scratching my head a little over this one.
Sorry for the chopped quote Ima,
I swear if I hear that "spoken to people" BS from my STBX one more time I'll puke. She tried to threaten me about a week or so ago, she told me she was going to get the (ministry of children and families) to strip me of custody. She said she knew that the ministry would do this because...................
Drumroll please......................
She had spoken to people.
I really think it's a MLC phrase similar to ILYBNILWY.
Sooooooooooo, I pick up the phone and hand it to her and tell her to place the call that is going to strip me of custody, I tell her that the people she has spoken to are either fictional characters or very stupid people indeed. She knows well my semi legal background and yet she still tries to poke the bull with a stick. I told her to call and prepare to wallow in the mess she created for I will take the gloves off if there is any more of this MLC nonsense.
Anyway I have rolled this around in my head for the last week or so and I think I may have figured out what is going on.
It's about control, they are out of it and away from us but they need to control us so we remain as a safety net. My STBX is always changing the schedule, hell she tried it tonight and I shot it down.
I would think that your DBing is working if she is feeling no control over you
