Dom - I've been married to a Doctor. I've been married to an oncologist who SMOKED. I've said, "Hmmm, do you suppose that is a good idea in the face of your knowledge??? No? Okay - I don't like it but you are an adult and your choices are yours."
Absolutely. you brought up the issue to them, and then you let them make their choice, about what they choose to do with their actions.
The thing is... you dont know that your husband has seriously studied those parts of the bible relevant to "husbands, wives, and sex". or, maybe he did 20 years ago, and has completely forgotten about it. The bible's kinda big... it IS possible to forget about parts of it
It seems like you're making an assumption, "my husband has read the relevant passages, has fully considered them, and has already made his choice about them, so they arent useful to me".
I'm suggesting to you that this is an invalid assumption. You dont know if he has even read them once in the last 10 years. Unless you ask him.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
