Great post SD! (though I don't really think MC is a requirement for reconcilliation.
I agree, but given the fact that they don't communicate well, I don't hold a lot of hope that H will spontaneously become the Great Communicator. All this stuff will need to be talked about at some point if only for Nikki's sanity...or at least that's been my experience. MC was my "safe" place to ask questions and state what I wanted. It's only because of that vehicle that I've been able to do those same things outside of MC and made it a part of the way I interact with H on a daily basis.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
