And Ohio Mark is a big support......unfortunately these men are veterans...sigh...their wives are crazy!!! Well, choc's came to her senses. But either way, I love how the 'boys' gather together to offer up advice.
aimhigh, just wanted to say this paragraph is amazing. Your whole post was, but I really was struck by how true this is, even when we don't see it at first:
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if you look at the success stories, and you should, you'll see certain common denominators. if i could identify the single most important one, it's that those people stand back, regroup, and then make themselves more appealing without overpursuing the other party. and then, slowly but surely, that force that the "ilybinilwy" party can't see, begins to exert it's very, very potent power.