You have to remember that my wife WAS HD when I married her. Then she became LD and her personality changed with it. All I want is for her to be the women she once was. I am not asking for some super HD woman.
Do I hold her in disdain. No. What does frustrate me is that she burns the candles at both ends doing things that do NOT help her marriage, and yet I bet she thinks they are. She constantly clean house, and I appreciate it, but it is NOT one of my needs. I see this problem with MOST LD women on here as well, they are busting their butts doing all kinds of stuff, and by the end of the days, they are exhusted. They probably think they gave 110% to their husbands and familes that day, but the sad fact is that most of what they do, even though appreciated, is the WRONG love languages and needs. Thus us guys feel like we are neglected and essentially unimportant.
