Wondering what peoples opinions are about how to best interact with W? Detached and indifferent? Nice and coordial? What?
To thine own self be true.
Interact however you feel like interacting at any given time. HER moods and/or perceived expectations should not dictate how you behave. Due to the circumstances of this time and her being a less than half-assed wife, you might be a bit testy at times. It is what it is and that ain't peaches and cream and if she expects you to act like it is she is more delusional that I thought.