Karen... if you were married to a doctor... and you somehow ran across something in a medical manual that said that some behaviour of his was harmful to himself...

would you show him the manual, and ask him about it?

or would you just say to himself, "well, HE's a doctor, he knows SOO much more than I do, I wont even bother bringing it up".

If you chose the second course of action, I would say that would be uncaring about your husband.

would you agree?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle